One on One
another great one on one session i had with my husband yesterday. very enlightening , straightening out our concerns & very refreshing, rekindling back our love & passion for each other. yet, another work of God 
we had a barbeque @ my sil’s place on labour day & i’m suppose to prepare oven grilled chix wings to bring over. so as not to take too much time barbequeing them whilst they can barbeque the rest of the other stuff like satays, hotdogs etc. but we had a bit of tiff that day.
you see, i wasnt really too happy when he played mahjong the nite b4. then while busily preparing my chix wings & making breakfast in the morning, he came to the kitchen all ready in his running gear & asked if myself & the kids want to join him to bedok reservoir. i went like, huh! firstly, you woke up late (duh! of coz, you finished the game @4am) . now you’re asking if we want to join you. its like 10 am & the sun was already up & i’m in the middle of preparing something here & you want me to join you? but i did, of course grumbling all the way la. i knew that when we got back home i’ll have to start grilling the chix while the rest of them will be in bed taking their afternoon nap. grrrrr……
then when we reached my sil’s place, he started putting my grilled chix wings over the fire. i went like you dont have to do that coz it will make the meat become too dry due to over exposed to heat (from my oven to the bbq pit). he did not see my point instead he only see tht everybody needs to eat hot food & not cold & so he just snapped at me infront of everybody saying ‘what’s wrong with you!’ i was hurt & embarrased. i went up to the house crying & didnt come out till like 2 1/2 hr later.
anyway, we did not resolved the matter until yesterday. he came home early & we had a heart to heart talk. of course he didnt apologise. but he explained why he did wht he did. he said that he was just tired listening to my grumblings the whole of yesterday & so, it just ticked him.
anyhow, we had a long talk. well, all in all i guess i am to be blamed too. yes, i’m guilty of complaining & grumbling all the time. i fail to support him in the things he does. i fail to understand that he worked out not out of vanity but due to his diabetic illness. *sigh* dont know la. but 1 thing i do know, each time when we had alittle tiff, the patching up is really worthwhile coz it’ll lead to an exploding intimate moment….& i could really relive again & reminise why i fell in love with him in the 1st place… if you know what i mean…. 
……still it doesnt give him the right to speak to me like that……
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